style cycle
the crazy path some girls follow due to the boys in their lives

ok, this is a hypothetical, dramatized story, but i think it fits well with me and a few others so here goes:
a normal girl, average hair, clothes, looks etc. happy with the way she looks, doesn't try to hard but showers and matches and does laundry.
this girl meets a boy, she thinks, wow i must impress this boy. soon girl paints nails, wears more makeup, goes shopping,starts to diet, tries new hair styles, etc.
boy notices girl, girl and boy hook up
girl continues her better appearance as to impress the boy and to impress his friends so that he may look good socially.
boy and girl have troubles and break up
girl sulkes, puts on sweat pants, eats entire contents of her fridge, etc. then after half'a'day of this behavior girl realizes that she can't possibly allow this boy to know how much she is falling apart so she decides she must keep her better appearance up. she showers puts on her nicest clothes does her hair and make up just right makes herself look impeccable and flaunts her beauty in front of boy..after a while girl notices that that boy is not noticing her and is checking out other girls
this girl realizes that her better appearance is not neccesary to attract this boy and he is not paying attention..so she lets down her hair, wears her jeans, less makeup, eats regularly etc.
back to square one, average girl, basic appearance, girl meets new boy.....the cycle continues

because u see we ladies do not realize that it is not the gentlemen that care, it is us, we care what we and other girls look like, it is our personality and confidence boost that the boy is attracted to, he does not realize that u painted ur nails just for him or that u bought a new skirt to impress his friends but he notices ur smile and the way u walk w/o a care, he notices ur vibrant glow and the way u look at him and the reason he looses intrest in u afterward is because the glow is gone and it's all for show and it's not making u feel better but worse about urself, u see he's now looking at the other girls who've painted their nails just so and have a bounce to their step
so moral of the story, dress for urself, feel good about urself, if u meet a boy he's not going to see ur new high heeled shoes or super expesive earings, he's too busy falling head over heals for ur smile (get it head-smile- over heals-shoes- haha)
so if ur going to paint ur nails do it, if ur going to go shopping do it, if u feel like dieting do it, but don't do it for him, he's not worthy of ur smile, do it for u, do it for ur friends, do it for God, do it for anyone, but do it because it makes u feel good and special!
changedfish-chipped nails but smiling still