hmm...that's interesting
i was just talking to a friend of mine and he was saying how he's realizing that you should always tell people how you feel about them and stuff cuz u never know what's going to happen, and i agree- on some level. i agree that you should always tell your parents that you love them and i agree that you should never fail to let your friends know that you would die without them..but i don't think that you should tell the people that you dislike that you dislike them of course..and on the romantic level i'm not so sure that it falls under the tell them in case one of you dies catagory. i mean sure it's supposed to be the right thing to do to tell a person that you care for them in that way but in reality most of us aren't going to die tomorrow and what does confusing that person really do for them? i mean it'd be nice to tell them hey i like you and then they die and at least they new (not nice that they died, nice that you got to tell them before they died) but at the same time how would their life be any less if they didn't know that? i mean why not just keep it to urself for a while, u may change ur mind anyhow and then it's like throwing all these words and emotions around for no good reason other than that you've made a pact with yourself to tell people what you think of them..and that's just kind of dumb, i mean like i say tell your mother you adore her every morning and let ur best friend know the sun shines out of his/her eyes but i firmly believe that telling a person how you feel about them so that they know in case some one dies should kinda end there, i think the point is to actually verbalize to the people who already know..i knwo my parents know i love them, but if they were to die i'd feel like i should've said it just one more time...now it's not that they didn't know it if i didn't say it but the point is you want to tell the people that mean the most to you how you feel about them, that they mean that much to you...that line of thinking isn't meant for you to go around to all the boys in ur classes that u think are cute adn tell them because u might get hit by a bus and u need to tell everyone what you think of them, it's just not like that u know...i just don't see how that would make matters any better....i'm all for living each day as if it were ur last, but is that really what you'd do if it was ur last day? i think not.
changedfish- watch out for those dang buses