o gosh...aight fillin' ya in on my big 4th plans.
ok well there weren't any really, i mean my rents and i went to a independance day bash at a family friends house because thier view is betta than ours and they invited us and all that jazz...hookay so i'll let u in on a piece of myself, i like to be nice to everyone, it bothers me when people r mean or when people r inconsiderate etc. etc. etc. so when i notice people being not as friendly to a person i make sure that i AM friendly to them, this however always gets me in trouble! porque *because* when it is a gentleman i'm being kind to they take it as i like them and i'm flirting and all, and i'm not! it seems in group settings (i.e. parties) this happens to me a lot! nehoo back to the 4th...picture this we're sitting out back cuz that's where the worx r, and this guy i know (old friend of mine used to go to church w/me, haven't seen him since like last summer but he's nice and all) well he's sitting by himself on the porch swing, and i don't have a seat so i innocently sit next to him...PROBLEM, during the worx he decides it's his duty to bring me a little closer by putting his arm around me and sort of huggishly laying me down on his chest...now for those of you that think this is cute it IS, EXCEPT for the times when you don't like the guy and u don't know him real well and u feel that u can't tell him u don't like him or to let go cuz ur way to passive of a person, then it just becomes awkward and weird...not only did he take me under his wing but he decided not to let go even after the worx...so before no one noticed our present position and now everyone sees it and keeps looking at us like we're some cute couple and they can't figure it out and NEITHER CAN I! i don't know how to just get up and go inside, i'm TRYING not to make waves or reject him coldly, and EVENTUALLY (like 20 mins later after EVERYONE went inside) i go inside, later he leaves and i get the interrogation from ALL my friends there about wut was going on, to which i reply that i have no idea and that i don't like him and i wasn't TRYING to lead him on, i just didn't know wut to do....end of story, rite? NOT today as i'm getting ready to go meet some friends for their b-day movie he CALLS ME!!! fortunately i had told my mom the whole story and she helped cover for me by telling him i was in the shower and that i was going out in a little bit...he plans to call back! ugh, i don't know wut to do! i mean wut if he tries to ask me to go out somewhere, or to "hang out" i mean u can't really reject a guy like that...it's just mean, but i don't like him so then i can't go w/him either so...GRRR!! help me out guys, y do i attract these types of people?!?!?
changedfish
ok well there weren't any really, i mean my rents and i went to a independance day bash at a family friends house because thier view is betta than ours and they invited us and all that jazz...hookay so i'll let u in on a piece of myself, i like to be nice to everyone, it bothers me when people r mean or when people r inconsiderate etc. etc. etc. so when i notice people being not as friendly to a person i make sure that i AM friendly to them, this however always gets me in trouble! porque *because* when it is a gentleman i'm being kind to they take it as i like them and i'm flirting and all, and i'm not! it seems in group settings (i.e. parties) this happens to me a lot! nehoo back to the 4th...picture this we're sitting out back cuz that's where the worx r, and this guy i know (old friend of mine used to go to church w/me, haven't seen him since like last summer but he's nice and all) well he's sitting by himself on the porch swing, and i don't have a seat so i innocently sit next to him...PROBLEM, during the worx he decides it's his duty to bring me a little closer by putting his arm around me and sort of huggishly laying me down on his chest...now for those of you that think this is cute it IS, EXCEPT for the times when you don't like the guy and u don't know him real well and u feel that u can't tell him u don't like him or to let go cuz ur way to passive of a person, then it just becomes awkward and weird...not only did he take me under his wing but he decided not to let go even after the worx...so before no one noticed our present position and now everyone sees it and keeps looking at us like we're some cute couple and they can't figure it out and NEITHER CAN I! i don't know how to just get up and go inside, i'm TRYING not to make waves or reject him coldly, and EVENTUALLY (like 20 mins later after EVERYONE went inside) i go inside, later he leaves and i get the interrogation from ALL my friends there about wut was going on, to which i reply that i have no idea and that i don't like him and i wasn't TRYING to lead him on, i just didn't know wut to do....end of story, rite? NOT today as i'm getting ready to go meet some friends for their b-day movie he CALLS ME!!! fortunately i had told my mom the whole story and she helped cover for me by telling him i was in the shower and that i was going out in a little bit...he plans to call back! ugh, i don't know wut to do! i mean wut if he tries to ask me to go out somewhere, or to "hang out" i mean u can't really reject a guy like that...it's just mean, but i don't like him so then i can't go w/him either so...GRRR!! help me out guys, y do i attract these types of people?!?!?
changedfish
posted by changedfish @ 8:28 PM
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At 1:45 AM ,
Anonymous said...
Hey Melz,
Guys like that are attracted to me all the time...j/k, but its a tough call, this is gonna be kinda wierd advice..but its one way of doing things...ok, ya gots a couple of options. 1- cold shoulder and hope he takes the hint, 2- aggressive, get away sicko deal, 3- the MIDDLE ROAD- don't call him (obviously) but make sure you let him know that you don't feel comfortable...and i would suggest doing this over the phone...but thats all up to u...and quick question...is this the first u've seen him in like a year? cause this guy must be going through some tough stuff...maybe u could hook him up with one of ur guy friends and just have them talk to him...thats kinda wierd behavior...i gotta ask, was he drunk? i just think that u were in the wrong place at the wrong time..and just so u know, as much as ur friendliness gets u in trouble..i reallly admire u for stepping u like that..
Best of luck,
W i L L
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